To like yourself is more important, then when others like you! Because only then you could be free from the surroundings or third parties. Or not worried about getting votes on Steemit, and only by accepting the reality as how it is. And that is, you are breathing and you could earn crypto from blogging on steemit. It completely depends on how you look at life, you can either complain or enjoy, the choice is yours! But listen to the words of Sadhguru, who will explain more about liking yourself. And that you could change your perception in a way, to be more creative and what can be used for steemit, what can lead to more votes!